How To Ask Someone You Donāt Know for a Phone Call
The secret to getting someone on the phone to discuss business.
This is a topic that isnāt written about enough, so I figured Iād write a quick post to perhaps help those of you out there who seek time with someone, but youāre not sure how to get it.
In two days, just as many people asked me to get on the phone to discuss questions they had related to their business.
Now, itās not that I donāt want to help people where I can. If time allows, then I certainly will do some consulting, which is why I replied in kind to each message asking for more details. I also included a modest consultation rate, just to ensure that both parties were prepared to spend the time productively.
I never heard back.
Time and expertise are valuable to both parties.
Iām sure you have heard it before:Ā If you donāt value your time then no one will.
Time is a very personal thing, as we only have so much of it. When itās gone, it is gone forever.
When I am asked to ājump on the phone for 15 minutesā (sidebar: thereās no such thing as a 15-minute phone call), then itās more than my time that is being requested. The individual(s) requesting the call want to benefit from my expertise. They want to tap into theĀ manyĀ years it took for me to acquire the knowledge I have in the e-learning, online courses, and WordPress space.
There is nothing wrong with that. Thatās the entire point of consulting. Thatās also why consultants have rates.
For me, if someone that I donāt know comes out of the blue and asks for my time (and I happen to have availability) then I expect them to pay my hourly rate because I know that I will save them a significant amount of time and money over the life of their project.
How to ask for someoneās time.
Asking for a meeting is a bit of an art. Even if you offer to pay someone their rate, they may still say ānoā because their schedule is full.
If you are calling because you need their consulting expertise for a project, but they donāt have availability, then try to schedule a short meeting initially (~20 minutes). The point of the call is to just give an overview of your situation, but not to actually get all your questions answered.Ā This shows the individual that you are serious about them and their time.
Naturally, you are compensating them for this short discovery meeting. Itās also important to make it clear that you want to continue working with them, even if they can spare only 30 minutes a week. If they still canāt do it, then ask if they can recommend someone in their network that may be able to help.
If you are requesting a call in order to discuss a business opportunity with someone, then you have a much more difficult task at hand. You can try using the strategy above to get your foot-in-the-door, but getting that person to say āyesā will be a lot more difficult.
To increase the chances of a meeting, make the discussion all aboutĀ how you can help them, and not the other way around.
A few key points:
- Avoid phrases like āmutual opportunityā. Itās a red flag, and youāll get shut-down pretty quickly.
- Donāt be cryptic. Say exactly what the opportunity is.
- Be specific and concrete in the benefitsĀ youĀ would offer in the deal.
For the last point a good example would be to say something like:
āIād like to promote your product to 20,000 people, and we normally have a conversion rate of 2%ā.
That is more likely to get their attention than a mystery inquiry where a call has to be scheduled in order to ālearn moreā.
Last but not least. Avoid the NDA crap for the first few meetings. If you need one, then get it signed after both parties agree to take talks a bit further.
One last thing to rememberā¦
Remember that in business, as in life, you will face rejection. What you donāt want to do is take the rejection personally. Remember, itās not about you. Itās about the personās time ā their most personal (and valuable) possession.
If the person you want to have a discussion with denies your request, then keep your head-up and move on. Otherwise, youāre just wasting yourĀ ownĀ time. š