Need to Compete
For as long as I can remember, I have loved to win. I despise losing, so much so that it has always motivated me to outperform my competitors. I suspect that this started as a young child, when my parents enrolled me into every sport imaginable.
I vividly remember one day before a tee ball game, I asked my dad, βwho are we fighting today?β
I was five years old.
He corrected me, explaining that we arenβt fighting anyone, but simply playing a game. I was confused, there was no difference in my mind.
If there is one thing I love about entrepreneurship that isnβt mentioned frequently, itβs the thrill of competing (and winning). I suppose some might describe this mentality as βold schoolβ, especially as it relates to business. I believe there are winners and losers, and not everyone gets a trophy because not every has earned one.
When I am in a competition that I care about, I go hard. If you get one over on me, then I acknowledge it and respect your victory β but you better believe that Iβm coming back, and even harder.
For me, there is no better way to show respect than by giving an opponent your absolute best. You show respect by running up the score. In business, that means getting more market share, winning customers of competing products, and being the go-to solution in a segment.
Competing makes me happy. It keeps me engaged, excited, and thinking creatively. It is for this reason that I decided to start another software company.